My Story

Some may find me missing in action for the past few weeks. I am still around but surrounded with multiple problem on my own which unable me to join or participate in what ever function. My apology and this is my story.

June/July 2012 was an hectic months for me and my family. After 7 forgetting the need for new employment scheme, it finally came back and I may need to decide my fate in this working environment. Previously it took me also 7 years to decide to jump and now the cycle came back. I'm yet to decide.

Early in June my maid suddenly tried to fool my wife of meeting 'family' but failed and later discovered that she was planning to run away for her wild and tricky internal desire. Something a married lady should not do. After a short reasoning and lie attempts my wife finally decided to chase the maid away. She had chosen to abandoned her duty for her wild desired. The last thing we know from her sister in law, she is bagging to come back. 'Just go to Hell!' How can you trust a maid to take care of your home and children when she was daringly tried to cheat you. As a result to that episode, we need to managed the kids using what left in time for their schooling and dare care arrangement. The time table changed a lot but thanks god for presenting us with a good kids and they adapt well with the new situation. They simply can tell everyone that their maid 'lari'.

Well in the same month, policeman had to come to my other house when a suspected robber was spotted at the outside of my daughter bedroom window. Thank you to my brave and very responsive neighbor who alerted my left neighbor, who later called my wife. The surrounding neighbor gathered while waiting for the police to come. The suspect disappeared without trace. Just imagine thee nightmare when a criminal is just inches away from the inside of our home. The back lane of my house is gated and the area is also guarded but yet this nasty robber is daring enough to be at the scene. This was not the first incident around the area. I has lighted up the back lane and probably plan to light up the roof area as well. CCTV is another option with safe door inside the house separating down and upper floor.

Another sickening situation when my window and door contractor is so incompetent when my house sliding and folding door are yet to function as it suppose to be after 4 months of purchase. the workers are a bunch of jokers who only know how to screw up and mess up my house. They never turn up early in the morning and resulting with working into late evening. I have to face the guard. I end up need to stay longer in our rental house due to this problem.

And finally at the dawn of July 2, 2012, 415 a.m. to be specific, my only father in law finally passed away peacefully. He actually left this world in a very good shape for a 65 years old with fully recovered colon cancer that he suffered some 8 years ago. A steady slow spoken man who accepted me with open hands into his family was not just a father in law to me but also a new father to my first wife who lost hers a long ago. My other son and daughters regarded him as their 'atuk' with no exception. My eldest daughter unable to hold her tears looking at his condition when visiting him at Sultanah Aminah Hospital, because some 4 weeks before the visit he was in a different situation. July 2 went very smooth for him. Woke up at 2.00 a.m. after a simple meal, rest, suffered breathing difficulty at 3.45 a.m. and finally taken away at 4.15 a.m. Just before dawn prayer Sultanah Aminah Medical Assistant arrived and confirmed of his departure; Family and close friends started to arrive to give a finally respect. At 9.00 a.m. his remain was brought to the Kampung's surau which was originally initiated by him where he was the first Chairman. At 10.00 p.m. his remain had a final bath and 'solat jenazah' was performed by the iman who lead numbers of family members and friends. His remain was the first who entered the gate of 'Tanah Perkuburan Sungai Sireh, Kelang, shouldered by his close relatives and friends. At 11.00 a.m. the 'tahlil' and 'doa' lead by his close friend marked the final farewell of my father in law Amir bin Saleh in his journey to be with the God Almighty. Alfatihah to him.

Now I believe my car has a soul. Two days before I am schedule to come for the next service the major problem is starting the car is fully recovered! Lets wait after the service. The car seem to know that it meeting the mechanic.

Sayed Sani
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